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I am so excited to welcome back Danielle Krysa from The Jealous Curator. Danielle has recently released her third book  titled Your Inner Critic is a Big Jerk. This is such a terrific read, I just had to have her back on for the Artists and Mentor Series.

Her own podcast, Art For Your Ear, has kept me painting when I could otherwise be drifting off into the kitchen in procrastination. Danielle is funny, smart, vulnerable and a talented artist herself. I adore her collage art (check out the screenshot below from her Instagram feed). Tune in as we talk about producing art while trying to wrestle, make friends with and stamp out that critical voice that we all have.

 Here is the art of Martha Rich. It is just so fun and we need this as a poster in our studios!

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Here is a peek at #daniellekrysaart on Instagram @thejealouscurator, you simply have to go read the titles and commentary on Danielle’s art-hilarious and smart! You can tune into my other interview with Danielle here.

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I have been researching more contemporary artists lately.  I think what I love about a contemporary “living” artist is that somewhere online you get the snippets of their thought process.  I just finished listening to this piece on Cecily Brown and thought you might like to hear her discuss her art and process. Her art is evocative which is why I like tuning in to hear what she has to say about their own work. I think she is fascinating!

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I found this shot on her instagram @dellyrose  I love how it gives you a glimpse into the scale of her work! Rock Star, anyone?

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Today I’d like you to meet Jason Horejs. Jason is the owner of Xanadu Gallery in Scottsdale, AZ and he is also the author of the Red Dot Blog. I have really  gotten immersed in his blog and in the mentorship that he offers to fine artists. As the son of an artist Jason  grew up attending art show and hanging out in art galleries (his first job at 14 was at an art gallery!) so he has been exposed to both sides of the equation. He understands art collectors and artists. I think that is rare and even valuable! I have found him, his blog and even the followers of his blog (read the comments!) to be a terrific resource. Jason has a heart for helping artists meet their goals and has set up so many ways to help them via his blog, books, his online gallery and mentorship. Tune in to this episode of the Artists and Mentors Series, I think you will like it, I sneak a couple of questions I am facing right now into the interview. 🙂

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HI! Welcome to a mini series called “Artists and Mentors.” Today on the podcast I am interviewing Grace Bonney from Design Sponge. She recently wrote a fabulously inspiring book called, In the Company of Women. With a focus on diversity, she highlights talented women and asks them about their businesses, how they find balance and even what they have learned from their  mistakes. I have heard Grace speak a couple of times and she is always eloquent and full of wisdom so I know you will enjoy our chat. As for me, I felt a bit rusty when I am interviewing her, what?!  After some time  traveling I had to find my gift of gab again! Stay tuned as I reveal who is next up on this mini series!

Oh! I so wish I could have been able to make it to one of Grace’s book panels!

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I created this painting several weeks ago. As I worked on it, it disturbed me. For the first time as an artist, I just let it be disturbing. It was personal.  Uncomfortable.  I knew there was more to this painting and more to this story. The original title was “You Just Stand There and Look Pretty ” over the past couple of weeks, I have expanded the title to “Unwanted Kisses.”

I am not a fan of controversy and am the type of person that would rather watch how things play out, but at this juncture I am showing you what came out of me, an artist, working on finding the balance of voice and beauty.

Over the years I have, like so many women, have been stunned, shocked, bullied and humiliated by the actions and words of  men like Donald Trump. Men that make a stealth habit of taking advantage of women when the see their guard let down. Men that actively look for ways to put women in vulnerable positions. They know EXACTLY what they are doing. They are practiced.

It is not ok, it is not meant to be swept away in other news commentary. It is not locker room talk and cannot be dismissed  by calling women liars or not ATTRACTIVE enough to be heard and believed. IT IS NOT OK. IT NEVER HAS BEEN AND IT NEVER WILL BE. Should I type that twice so you believe me when I say it? Simply condemning this behavior is not enough in my book.

With two sons and a wonderful husband, I live in a house of men that I cherish. I have never taken the time or been brave enough to tell them my stories.  It’s disturbing and uncomfortable. . As we can see, there is a  real fear that you might not be believed, heard, or respected simply because of what someone else premeditated and did to you. But I love the men  in my life enough to take a stand and to make them uncomfortable and let them know, it has happened to me and it stuck with me. It took pieces out of my spirit, out of who I am and who I am meant to become.

If you have a sister, a daughter, even a mother, you need to take a stand with with them and say it is NOT OK. No matter how big, how powerful or how rich you happen to be, it is NEVER OK.

Witnessing people who are most likely decent men and women rally around an abuser is the most disheartening thing I have witnessed in my years on the planet. It is  especially surprising  and hurtful, coming from  other women.  I want to shout to them, not at them.  I want to let them see the pain in our eyes up close,  so they will be woken from slumber.

We have to stop it.  We cannot let this conversation be over, too much is at stake. I do not what my sons to see someone rewarded for humiliating women repeatedly, first in offense then in words.  As educated, decent, compassionate men and women we must say, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. 

“Yeah, I’m going to go after you. Believe me, she would not be my first choice, that I can tell you … That would not be my first choice.” -Donald Trump

Your first choice for WHAT exactly, Mr. Trump?

We stand up together and say STOP.  STOP using words that belittle us, STOP touching when you are not in relationship with us, STOP denigrating us based on how we look. Most of all,  STOP ASSAULTING US.

Saying, “I’m with her”  means that you are linking together with your daughter, your granddaughter, your sister, your mother, your wife so they won’t be next. Just “condemning” ANYONE doing these things is simply not enough, it’s personal. 

You are welcome to share my personal uncomfortable piece of art but please share these words I have written with it.

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